What do you do when you dont know what to do?
Hmmm
Few hours ago,aft FB-ing..
I dun noe what else to do.
So i went to google n search
"What to do before you get married"
I was being random..thought it's gonna come up with sites like
"promotion for brazilian wax" or wateva sites to make sure you're 1st night is perfect
u noe la how my mind thinks..hehe..
but the search actually came up with a site called
"Marriage Deal Breakers - 10 Most impt Qs to ask b4 u get married".
I find it interesting and had a self reflect moment aft reading the Qs
So for the people who's getting married..ahem..
the 10 Qs to ask are
1 - Children "Do you want to have children??"
2 - Finance "Can we talk about Money?"
3 - Sex "Can we talk about Sex?"
4 - In-laws "How much time will we spend wit our in-laws?"
5 - Chores "Will you clean the toilet?" (ugh..but no choice mah)
6 - Time "How do you want to spend our off days?"
7 - Addiction "How often do you drink/gamble?"
8 - Abuse "Have you ever hit someone?"
9 - Fidelity "Do you think its important to be faithful to one another?"
10 - Long-lasting Marriage "What do you think we'll be doing in 30 to 40 years time?"
After the self reflect thingy n answering these Qs in my mind..i think me n him are on the right path. Compromise is the key to lasting relationship i think. I give he take, he give i take. But actually i think i take more than him.
Alah wateva it is, i noe i love him more. heee..
Ok got to go sleep alr. Got to wake up at 1030am. 8 hrs sleep..juz wat i need.
Nitey2.
KaiDya
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